Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Let Your Baby Teach You How To Pray

By
Albert Kumirai
                When we are in need of help we pray to God to help us in our time of adversity. We pray faithfully expecting God’s help with our problems. We have no way of knowing when the help will arrive but it always does. God helps us through other people by placing the right people who have the solutions to our problems into our path and by creating the necessary links between us and those who can solve our problems. Often when we pray and the solution does not seem to come quickly enough we tend to despair. Desperation is an indication that we are getting impatient at the time it is taking to get an answer.  When a thief is trying to break in, we call the police emergency number, and after a certain length of time we feel that the police are taking too long to respond. We become desperate. A taxi is taking us to the airport, suddenly there is a traffic jam and we are boxed in. The departure time of our flight quickly begins to approach, and we get very desperate.  They say desperate times call for desperate measures, so we usually respond in ways that are irrational such as getting out of the taxi and attempting to run on foot the remainder of the distance to the airport, lugging our heavy bags and wearing inappropriate gear for such a marathon.  Despair is an act of doubt. Doubt is an expression of faithlessness. When faith goes, doubt sets in accompanied by fear and despair.
                We pray faithfully expecting God to help with our problems. Faith is a belief in something we can not see, but a belief so strong and unwavering that it becomes the same as certainty. When a baby gets hungry it prays to the mother for milk. In other words it cries. The mother might have been busy with something she considered urgent, and may have put off feeding the baby until she finishes the task. The baby’s cry is a perfect trigger for the maternal instinct that hears the clear message that baby needs attention.  The baby will not stop crying even though the mother may try to lull her or to tell her that it will be just another five minutes before the food is ready. The baby perseveres by crying until the spoon is literally in the mouth and she can taste the porridge. The baby will cry throughout the food  preparation period,  unaware of the swift pace at which the mother is trying to get the food ready. Unaware that that the only delay now is that mother is trying to cool down the porridge. Unaware that mother is placing a feeding napkin on her tiny chest to get ready to feed her. The baby perseveres unaware of the mother’s progress but fully confident that as long as she continues to cry the food will be put in its mouth. Baby started off having a problem, just as we all might encounter problems. The baby’s problem was a pang of hunger and ours could be any of a myriad of adversities that afflict adult humans.
The baby started crying to a higher power to get its problem solved and we pray to God in faith to get His intervention. When the baby’s mother was taking the time necessary to prepare the food and get the baby ready for feeding, the baby does not stop crying, it perseveres, and will not stop until it is fed, so must we also follow this example and persevere in prayer till our solutions also arrive.  God is ever faithful and will always come to our help but we must pray insistently and faithfully because that is His code with us, just as the mother and the baby. The crying triggers the help mechanism in the mother. It is a primal instinct not learnt or practiced but inborn, instinctive, from time immemorial, from God.
                A few hours before they ceased Christ during the early period of his passion and eventual death he awoke the three sleeping disciples encouraging them to stay awake as the hour of betrayal was getting closer, their spirits were willing but their bodies were getting weak, so he said to Peter, John and James “Pray.”  The act of prayer is a propitiation to God and the voice of our prayer is attuned to God’s audience by the intercession of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is our guide and protector and is the voice that reaches to God in the same effective manner that a baby’s voice registers in the maternal instincts of her loving mother. Our God is a loving God and His mercy endures forever, but we can only reach him by constant prayer through faith in Christ Jesus.
               

Friday, March 11, 2011

Love Endures All


My idea of love is freedom
by
Albert Kumirai

Love is not conditional and endures all adversity. When love is subjected to a list of conditions it is nolonger true love. When a bird tells its eggs that when you hatch please do not fly away as I need you here with me; or if the butterfly tells the pupa that when you escape the coccoon please do not flutter away into the air, I can not bear to lose you; or if the eagle were to tell its hatchling that when your wings are strong and your sight clear and your tallons sharp please do not soar because I love you and I want you here with me, then it is not love.
Love has wings to fly and a memory to come back as it wills.
Love has freedom and yet is not reckless.
Love sees all that is beautiful but still remembers all that is important.
Love knows that all is permissible but that not all is beneficial.
Love thrives on vulnerability and the knowledge that the power is in the loved to choose to take it or leave it. Love does not restrict but it gives freedom to roam in the hope and expectation that it will return.
Love knows that if the heart is afraid to break it will never truly love.
Love knows that a life spent trying to prevent the heart from breaking will never experience true love.
Indeed the only way to know whether someone will return is to let them free to go.
Otherwise how will you know if you lock them up?
The only way an eagle can see if the eaglet can soar is to let it fly. If you clip the wings of the young eagle then the crippled eagle will never be free, and feeding it and caring for it is not love but bondage.
You do not love by throwing the loved ones into a prison of your insecurities.
If the time spent worrying where she is or where he is were spent preparing for when they come back, there would be more love spread about and shared, and more joy and cheer experienced every moment of life.

Love is not given in order to get something in return.
Love is given freely and without prejudice.
Loving because he has money ends when the pocket is empty.
Love because she is beautiful ends when the beauty fades.
Loving because she is popular ends when the people disperse and you are alone together.
Beware of such lovers as they are fortune hunters looking for a shortcut to wealth or popularity.
Beware of smiles that are directed towards your wallet rather than at your heart.
Beware of calculated risks taken because you seem to be a good work in progress that will yield dividends.
Beware of the one who who loves your physical appearance or athletic abilities or your rich family.

In the movie Coming To America the prince goes to great lengths to find true love.
He wants the true attraction to come from the heart rather than from avarice and that the one true love be a person not attracted to his wealth and position but to him as a man.

Remember that love speaks for itself and needs no embellishment.
Love speaks loudest in times of adversity.
When troubles visit you, the only thing that remains in your corner is true love.
All else scurries away like rats or cockroaches in fear and selfish pride.
Love endures forever.
Love will remain by your side when all hell breaks loose.
Love says be still and trust in me.
Indeed God is love.
Be still says the Lord, and know that I am God.
I love you all.
God bless you all.